When Our Children Become Adults, Do We Actually Like Each Other?
When children become adults, the relationship with their parents is supposed to change. But what happens when expectations, obligations, and ideas about family no longer align? Inspired by a conversation with sociologist Rin Reczek, this article explores compulsory kinship, family estrangement, ambiguous grief, chosen family, and what it really means to build healthier adult relationships.
When There Is No Path Forward: Life After Family Estrangement
What happens when you've done the work, taken accountability, and attempted to repair a family relationship, but reconciliation still isn't possible? In the final installment of Breaking the Silence, we explore the grief of family estrangement, ambiguous loss, forgiveness, boundaries, and what it means to build a meaningful life when someone important is no longer part of it. Because healing and reconciliation are not the same thing.